Are you living with “JOY”

Monday, September 20th, 2010


Joy, the grandest state of being
“In an exuberant state of Joy, you are at peace with everything about you - when you are in joy with life, you cannot feel remorseful or insecure, fearful, angry, or lacking - in a state of Joy, you are fulfilled and complete, and life, wisdom, and creativity flow like a mighty river from within your being - you are inspired to the heights of greatness and the depths of feeling”-Anonymous

After reading this quote I thought Joy was a perfect word to elaborate on and to use as the word of the week - Peace, love, health and happiness are the four things I desire most out of life and I couldn’t
agree more with the author that penned these feelings on Joy - throughout our lives we are subjected to thousands of experiences that illicit a multitude of feelings and when Joy is the result from any given
experience there’s nothing better - if you think about it, during those moments when we are overtaken with joy we are completely free - free from life’s struggles, hardships, and pain - in those moment there
is no suffering - wouldn’t it make sense then to pursue those things in life that would result in joyful feelings - so whatever it is that makes you happy - whatever it is that puts that big smile on your face, butterflies in your belly, stars in your eyes or love in your heart, go after it - live it - love it - we all deserve to have more joy in our lives but it’s up to us to make it happen - so get busy - ENJOY!!!


Do you need to “Let It Go”?

Monday, September 13th, 2010

I got into a conversation over the weekend with a buddy of mine about kids that bully - we started reminiscing about our childhoods and the experiences that each of us had with bullying - this friend had an older brother that was the king of bullies - I happened to be on the receiving end of quite a bit of it myself but admittedly, I stand accused of being a first degree jackass - especially to my younger brother (I’ve said this before but I’ll say it again - Sorry E) - we started to discuss parenting or the lack of it and the role that plays in our choices during childhood - we both agreed that the dynamic of the household plays a huge role in how a kid will behave and what kind of character he or she will develop - The both of us were products of divorced parents whose fathers weren’t around much - when this happens potential trouble is very likely - unless the mother rules the house with an iron fist, which neither of ours did - toward the end of our talk my friend said something that led to my phrase of week; ‘LET IT GO’ - he believed his brother was so mean and abusive because of the anger and frustration he was carrying around with him from when his parents split - I can accept that and believe it to be true but it’s what he said next that I found to be an important lesson - he said his brother is still carrying around that same anger and frustration despite being 46 years old - the first thing that came to mind after he said this was how his brother needs to let those things from the past go - those memories and feelings that are attached to them are toxic and life threatening - we all go through life collecting heartaches and breaks - abuse and embarrassment - pain and suffering - but I can’t stress the importance of ‘LETTING IT GO’ enough - find a way to forgive and forget - cleanse your mind and your spirit and move on - we have no use for those debilitating things in your life - the good news is that there are ways to set yourself free from the ball and chain of your past - start by living each day in the present - leave the past where it belongs, right where it is, in the past - look at all the beauty and love that surrounds you - friends and family - the sunrise and fresh air - our generous earth - passion and purpose - all of the blessing and gifts you need are right there for the taking - oh and one more thing that will absolutely help you find peace, love, health and happiness: LIVE THE 7 and spread the Love.


blog written by John Nies