I volunteered to help coach my 7 year old son who is playing tackle football for the first time - yesterday was his first game and something very interesting happened that is worth sharing. We arrived at the field early and none of the players from the other team were out on the field. As they arrived they assembled at the far end of the complex and came out onto the field as one unit. As they walked toward their bench I noticed my son staring at them with a look of concern on his face. I disregarded it and went about my business- 10 minutes later he came up to me saying he had a stomach ache and wanted to sit down - I asked him if he was nervous and he said he wasn’t - he said he felt nauseous and that he didn’t feel well enough to play - It soon became obvious to me that he had a common case of the pre-game jitters - he was in fact nervous.

Being an athlete myself I knew exactly how he was feeling - I used to literally shake in my cleats before football games and it wasn’t until after the first hit that I would calm down - so I knew I had to figure a way to get him to relax enough to convince him to get out on the field with hopes that he would be okay after his first hit - I decided to have him do a deep breathing RELAXATION technique - I had him take in a deep breath, hold it for a second or two and let it out - we did this ten times - he immediately started to feel better but not good enough to play just yet - I left him alone for 5 minutes and went back over and repeated another 10 deep breathes - 5 minutes later he came out onto the field to say: “Dad I feel a little better but I only want to play defense” - I laughed to myself and knew what he was saying and I couldn’t blame him - it’s always easier to be the one delivering the hit as opposed to the one receiving it.

Luckily the first hit was all he needed and he practically played the entire game on both offense and defense - After the game he admitted that seeing those “big boys” walking onto the field made him nervous. I told him that was normal and okay, that most players get nervous even the pro’s. That made him happy to know that but more importantly we now know what to do to help calms his nerves before a big game.

Posted Monday, August 24th, 2009 at 4:48 pm
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