How’s your ‘MENTAL FITNESS’?

Monday, March 15th, 2010

In the spring of 1996 I was sitting in the living room of a very bizarre home waiting to meet the man that was supposedly going to help fix my “problems”. I say bizarre because I was surrounded by hundreds of what seemed to be very rare and very expensive works of art - statues - pottery - carvings - tapestries among many other things - It felt more like a museum than someone’s house - My girlfriend at the time had brought me to San Jose, Ca to see a doctor she referred to as a Chinese healer  - I soon learned that he was actually Vietnamese and much much more than a healer - Upon my introduction he started his assessment of me and within five minutes it was as if he had dissected my body, my mind, and my spirit - how he knew what he knew was and still is beyond my understanding but he was dead on - of all the profound things he said there was one thing that concerned me most - after asking me how many years I had been in school - he prophetically stated that the entire time I felt that I was stupid - that I couldn’t remember the things that I read - that I couldn’t concentrate and had no focus - this was the truth and exactly how I felt about myself - the good news was that he said there was a solution - that day was the first of many that I would spend learning and training under his tutelage.

His primary objective was to teach me how to become the “master of my mind” - what happens to to some of us as we develop from young boys and girls into adults is we lose control of of mind - when that happens the body takes over control and our lives become dictated by cravings, temptation and desires - when this happens we’re in trouble and it doesn’t take long for some form of suffering to set in - with the loss of control over our mind it’s like being out at sea on a boat with no rudder - just drifting around aimlessly having to go wherever life takes us - as some of us know all too well this is not a good feeling - Fortunately there’s a solution to this problem and I refer to it as ‘MENTAL FITNESS’ - there are certain activities that we can use to make sure that we don’t lose control and get lost out at sea - believe it or not there is a way to exercise that supports our mental fortitude and I teach this method here at The Power Center - there are other things to do as well such as meditation - visualizing and studying to name a few - All of these things are a part of a life enhancing program I created called ChiForce - by learning and applying the principles that make up the ChiForce program you can take your mental fitness to great heights, insuring yourself against many of life’s adversities - things like depression - anxiety and incessant worrying to name a few - there is really no need for us to suffer we just need to understand that there are solutions to all of our problems and if we are diligent and committed to being healthy on all fronts - physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally than life becomes much more enjoyable - If you or someone you love needs to learn how to ‘train the brain’ than don’t wait another day - call me today and let’s get you on the path to taking back control over mind and your life - Here’s to your health!!

John Nies

Are you “DEDICATED”?

Tuesday, March 9th, 2010

To commit to a goal or a way of life - self sacrificing devotion — These are two of the several ways to define dedication - the chosen subject of this weeks blog - Considering the overwhelming health crisis that our country and many others around the world are facing, there’s no better time than right now to dedicate ourselves to making some changes in our collective lifestyle - I consider the people that occupy this earth to be one enormous family - a family that needs to come together and solve some of our problems - problems that if we continue to ignore will threaten millions if not billions of lives - WE are sick OUR earth is sick and WE all need to dedicate ourselves to healing ourselves each other and mother earth -  Our physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional health has been compromised by our way of life and making better choices needs to be our top priority - I truly believe with all my heart that the large majority of human beings can take back control of their health and contribute to the global healing movement that is so desperately needed.

SELF SACRIFICING DEVOTION - these three words speak volumes - if we step outside of ourselves for a moment and put our egos aside it’s so easy to see that we need each other - we need to come together as a people - not as a country - not as a religion - not as a political party - as human beings - all part of the same family - we need to help each other - support one another - share the information and the resources that will promote change - every individual needs to take responsibility for themselves - it’s up to each of us to make the decision to get healthy - I say we all dedicate the next year to changing the world by changing ourselves - we’re all blessed with free will - the ability to choose - I’m choosing to dedicate myself to be strong - mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally strong - What are you going to choose to dedicate yourself to?

I Am _____ … Who are you?

Monday, February 22nd, 2010

I am ______ - What’s the first word that comes to mind? Happy? At peace? In love? Healthy? Strong? A good friend? Nice? Honest? If you are anything like I was 7 or 8 years ago then the words that would fill that blank would be much more dismal - I would have been using words like; lost, confused, dishonest, selfish, lazy, mean, disconnected, depressed, delusional, and addicted. The beautiful thing about this life is that we’re blessed with a conscious and free will, which enables to assess and evaluate ourselves and decide if the choices we’re making are the right ones that will result in feeling good about who we are - I am is a very important statement we have to make - we are creators and we have the responsibility to mold ourselves into the person we want to be - everything is a choice - we can choose to live with integrity, honor, and self-respect or we can choose to be a liar, a criminal, or a jerk - its up to us to decide who we become and who we want to present to the rest of the world - it all starts with paying attention to what were thinking and how those thoughts lead to feelings and feelings to actions and actions lead to results. Another beautiful blessing this life affords all of us is multiple chances to get things right - we can mess things up over and over and over again until one day the lightbulb goes off and just like magic we can change our ways - make better choices and turn our lives around filling in that blank with words that we can be proud of - So I challenge all of you to fill in your blank and see what you come up with - see if there’s some areas of your life that might need some work and some adjustments - before we can make any changes we first have to identify that something’s not right - then we decide to do something about and formulate a plan to make it happen - so today I challenge you and myself to evaluate who you are and who I am and together let’s make some changes that will make OUR WORLD a better place. And let’s do it with smiles on our faces :-) Have a great day!

Have ‘RESPECT’?

Monday, February 15th, 2010

Much of our learned behavior come from the adults that we emulate and imitate as we grow, mature, and develop into our own person. In most cases these people are our parents, our grandparents or our guardians. Respect was always a quality that was discussed and expected to be taken seriously in our family. It started with self-respect – then we were taught to respect one another’s differences and individuality – respect our elders – and always have respect for our earth. Without self-respect it is virtually impossible to have any respect for anyone or anything else. Without respect for other people and our earth the results can be devastating.  I’ve been taught and now believe that it is imperative that we learn to respect our body, our mind and our spirit in order to become a powerful human being - able to reach more of our potential, which will manifest into a natural desire and ability to respect all things living on this planet.


John Nies



Have you begun your “TRANSFORMATION”?

Tuesday, February 9th, 2010


Transformation - You are truly a rare breed if you aren’t in need of some kind of transformation. I bet it’s probably safe to say that most of us are here on this earth to learn some valuable lessons - We all live and we all learn - we are all students that will eventually ask the same questions - who am I? - why am I here? - where do we go when it’s all said and done? - I once read that in order to understand what we ARE we first need to understand what we ARE NOT- in order to to comprehend such profundity we are required to live through a plethora of experiences that will hopefully shed some light on our confusion - we’re on a journey - an exploration of self that is replete with many hardships, emotional ups and downs, challenges, fears, doubts, and insecurities - often times these experiences force us to run, hide, escape, ignore or develop coping skills that will temporarily make life manageable but there’s only so much of it that we can take. That’s when we draw the conclusion that there’s got to be something more to life than this and we start to desire change - a more meaningful connection and that’s when you start your transformation from a life rooted in fear to a life full of peace, love, health and happiness.

John Nies

COURAGE

Monday, February 1st, 2010

Courage - So many of life’s circumstances can be quite challenging and present difficult situations for us to deal with. Courage is our defense mechanism that does battle with our fears, allowing us to face them head on with the fortitude to overcome them. Courage is called upon when you realize its time to follow your dreams, to speak your truth, to change your situation. Courage is what people have who choose to follow the road less taken, to listen to the voice within, or to create the life they want to live. Today’s world can be a very intimidating place and courage is a very useful trait to develop. Courage is an attitude, a way of looking at things. Courage is what helps us get back up when we get knocked down and motivates us to keep fighting, through whatever circumstances we find ourselves in.

Always try to move courageously through life believing that no matter how difficult things may get – no matter what obstacles stand in your way there is a way to come out on top.

John Nies





WITHIN

Monday, January 25th, 2010


Within - What an interesting word - it has so much wonder and mystique - When we look within there is an entire world to be seen - we can recall our dreams - failures - hopes - scars - lessons - pain - pleasure - heartache - joy - fear - love - the list can go on and on - Don’t be afraid of what you might find on your way down because at the core what you will find is God’s eternal light - pure love - the absolute truth - a peaceful calm and serenity - During my training in California with my mentor I learned that inside every human being is an entire Universe that mirrors the Universe in which we live - both are comprised of the same elements and both are limitless - deep within each of us are the answers to all of life’s questions - the journey thru all of the fear and pain we’ve accumulated throughout our lives are merely the lessons we needed to learn in order to find the answers to those questions - so have no fear - look deep within - you just might be pleasantly surprised with what you find.

Post written by John Nies








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