Are you willing to ‘SLOW DOWN’?
Tuesday, August 23rd, 2011How often is it that you hear people commenting on how ‘time is flying by”? Days, weeks, months, and even years pass as if life’s DVD were stuck on fast forward. I also hear from a lot of adults that subscribe to the idea that the feeling of time accelerating comes with age. That may be true but adults aren’t the only ones noticing how fast-paced life has become. I’ve asked several kids and without exception they feel the same way - time is moving at a very fast pace. The kids I’ve asked say this is evident even during the school year, which completely baffles me, because when I was a kid the school year moved along like a slug climbing a very steep mountain. There’s no denying this phenomenon is a part of our current reality but the question I want pose is this: Can something be done to slow it down? I personally think the answer to that question is yes because I believe that collectively we’re to blame. Our thoughts, words, and actions (behavior) are what’s causing the acceleration, therefore if we so choose we can reverse it and slow things down. How do we do it you ask? By spending more time in the present. Living in the now slows life down. The anticipation of things to come in the future is what speeds it up. Let’s use the workweek as an example. How many millions of people are out there loathing Monday’s and how many more millions can’t wait for the weekend? We start this anticipation thing very early on in life. Kids can’t wait to get older, as if there’s something more magical about being 10 then being 9. Can’t wait to get our drivers license, can’t wait to turn 18 to move out or go to college, can’t wait for 21 as if there’s something special about being able to legally consume alcohol. Can’t wait for a cell phone upgrade, can’t wait for summer, can’t wait to go on that vacation, can’t wait for the next season of Entourage. Many of our lives have become all about anticipating things to come as opposed to appreciating and enjoying those things that we already have. Maybe you’re someone that doesn’t mind living life this way. But I think this way of life causes stress, leaves us anxious, disconnected, dissatisfied, and needlessly suffering. If you agree and want to try to slow things down than I recommend you spend more time trying to enjoy the present instead of dreaming about the future. Living the 7 will help if you’re interested in slowing down.