There was a time in my life in the not so distant past where my ‘WILL POWER’ was practically nonexistent - I had no control over many of my choices and fell victim to many of life’s temptations on what seemed to be a daily basis - I remember making vows to myself on boys night out not to drink alcohol and partake in some of the other extra curricular activities - without fail I would put myself into a situation and no matter how hard I tried to resist, for one reason or another I would break down and give in - In those situations the giving in was usually influenced by peer pressure - but there were other situations where there was no one to point the finger at but myself - An example of that came soon after reading the book ‘The Sugar Blues’ by William Dufty - After William enlightened me to the dangers of sugar I decided to stop eating it cold turkey - The health threats that his book pointed out were enough of a motivating factor to support my decision for nearly six months - till one day I walked into a 7-11 to get a drink and had a complete meltdown - It started with a crispy creme doughnut and a Yoo Hoo chocolate drink - then it spiraled out of control and I had a pint of Ben & Jerry’s, four reese’s peanut butter cups, and a package of vanilla wafer cookies - I felt like a crack addict that just fell off the wagon - These are just two examples of my many failed attempts to control temptation and cravings - Maintaining control over one’s desires/cravings/temptation is very tricky business - I like to compare it to a juggling act where we have to keep 5 balls up in the air - We need mental fortitude - a healthy and well nourished body - emotional stability, which requires the balancing of our brain’s mood stabilizing chemicals like serotonin and dopamine - a desire to be fit and healthy - and most importantly the knowledge and the tools to make these things a part of our lives - ChiForce and The Seven Disciplines offers that balance and will help us take control of our choices - to learn more go to www.chiforce7.com
Posted by John Nies
March 25th, 2010 at 11:23 am
This article came in the perfect time of my life. As i am struggling with will power. It helps to know that other people as well know what you are going trough. It’s a lot tougher than i thought it would be. I have come to the point of giving up trying to have will power. However reading this article has kinda giving me a wake up call, that maybe i can really do this! And i plan to!